Sunday, March 31, 2019

Invite

That is the millennial's shorter term for a request for one's voluntary presence and participation. Much like our Lord's call to
us, Our Daily Bread reflects.

So to the disputants, except in court-annexed mediation wherein it forms a preliminary process before pretrial can commence.


Saturday, March 30, 2019

Breaking the Magician's Code

Magic tricks unmasked step-by-step!

Nonesuch in mediation. Pure realistic work of disputants.

Friday, March 29, 2019

Same Kind of Different as Me

HBO feautured a white couple who gave a black man a second chance at life, just like "God's recycling business of turning trash to treasure."

Much like mediation.

Thursday, March 28, 2019

Seeing Yellow

There is a recent order that states that in DU30 visits in government institutions at least, no one should be wearing yellow.

Someone ought to mediate fanatism.

Wednesday, March 27, 2019

Journal of Political Risk

They advised PH to flood all possible platforms and institutions with cases against China. Forum- shopping, in legalese.

Disputants will just have to go to mediation.

Tuesday, March 26, 2019

The Disappearance of Madeleine McCann

This riveting Netflix feature followed the loss of this British child in 2007 while on vacation in Portugal. A decade later, a digitalized photo of how she would look then was released to her parents in a heart- wrenching moment. Her updated photo was more useful in the continuing search for Madeleine.

Mediation also looks for creative ways to resolve conflict.

Monday, March 25, 2019

As Good As It Gets

Seen again in Netflix, it could actually be titled As Good As He Gets- how an OC grouchy old writer gets to take care of his regular waitress at the diner, and his gay artist neighbor.

Mediation likewise gives disputants the opportunity to be their better, not bitter selves.

Sunday, March 24, 2019

A Toast

"Grace and Frank" on Netflix is a Sunday treat. At Frankie's son's wedding, his AA brother proposed a toast on the literal one.

That's like a creative Compromise Agreement.

Saturday, March 23, 2019

Peace and Quiet

Our Daily Bread featured an infant's fussing when in the arms of her mother's friend.

Like disputants choosing the mediator they are comfortable with.

Friday, March 22, 2019

Hilmarc

Your word. The company implicated during the Senate hearing on the anomalous construction of the Makati City Hall is now building the new Senate Building. Such twist of fate!

No such surprises in mediation.


Thursday, March 21, 2019

Spent Rifle

It can still be put to use, as shown by the New Zealand hero who used it to smash the getaway car window of its terrorist owner. They were caught soon after precisely because of that damaged window.

This is like the lessons learned from conflicts in mediation.

Wednesday, March 20, 2019

Apple

It used to just keep the doctor away. Now, its watch can detect irregular heartbeat.

Mediation is likewise a sign of progress in the judicial system.

Tuesday, March 19, 2019

Happy Days

The Fonz, Henry Winkler didn't have them in school.  He had dyxslexia. At home, his short German parents did not want him to be an actor, but instead sell wood. "The only wood I was interested in was Hollywood," he recalled. Along the way, he earned a Master of Fine Arts from the Yale School of Drama despite "not reading off a page to this day."

Happy self-mediation!


Monday, March 18, 2019

Mediator Rizal

"Toolfo" calling Filipinos indolent compared to the Chinese alertness in taking local jobs, seems to have read just the title of Rizal's work. In his Looking Back column, Ambeth Ocampo traces this trait to our Spanish history and even the climate. We were not born this way, too, as ironically, Chinese historians cited our industry and honesty.

No quick fixes and hasty generalizations in mediation.

Sunday, March 17, 2019

Spilling Through My Fingers

Yesterday's Our Daily Bread spoke of the futility of recovering spilled water.

Mediation is a better option.

Saturday, March 16, 2019

She's Baaack

To her old tricks, the Speaker of the House is again involved in funds-padding the National Budget.

Bad shot moves of disputants after the Compromise Agreement are safeguarded.

Friday, March 15, 2019

Right

Going over files of nurses in the hospital where we do volunteer HR administration, chanced upon a checklist evaluation for nurses, among them: Right drug, right dose, right person, right frequency... Right on!

The Compromise Agreement is also along the same pattern.

Thursday, March 14, 2019

Mayday

Always liked this show before that detailed the history of expressions. This particular one was traced in Our Daily Bread. It was created by Frederick Stanley Mockford in 1923 when he was senior radio officer in London's Croydon Airport. Then it had many flights to and from Le Bourget Airport in Paris. The SOS call came from the French "m'aidez" meaning "help me."

Mediation in a way is an SOS out of court. It also clears all barriers in communication.

Wednesday, March 13, 2019

American Idol

Usually follow The Voice and its host Adam Levine but a lucky surf to AI gave a front row view of a truly blind audition! Singing Rise Up, she drove Lionel Richie to tears. Hope she felt that.

Mediation is blind-sided in that it takes no side.

Tuesday, March 12, 2019

Last Man Standing

Caught another episode of this comedy show with Tim Allen. In his commentary at the end, he mused how the term "nuclear family" is so apt, with megatons erupting at times, especially with a mother lode around. She can push buttons she has sewn herself!

Monday, March 11, 2019

Credentials

Candidate Imee's cv says she graduated here, there, everywhere, complete with rites at the state- confiscated Meralco Theater of the Lopezes originally.

UP and Princeton are to be believed against the Princess ton of claims.


Sunday, March 10, 2019

Honesty

Credentials of senatorial candidates have been a hot topic this midterm election. Those whose hands were caught in the cookie jar scoff at this criterion as irrelevant. Incredible!

Mediation sticks by the best policy.

Saturday, March 9, 2019

Fantastic Tales

You hear them at the start of mediation, each disputant blaming the other. Like Aaron in Exodus when he told Moses, "Then they gave me the gold, and I threw it into the fire, and out came this calf" !

Friday, March 8, 2019

Attitude

GMA News Tv's morning show has this parting shot- "tawanan ang problema, wag tambayan."

Mediation is not exactly to laugh about but to get over conflict.

Thursday, March 7, 2019

Buddha

He said: "If you like a flower, you pluck it. If you love a flower, you water it."

A lot of likers in mediation.

Wednesday, March 6, 2019

Sirach

Not so crazy are his words: "Keeping the law is worth many offerings. Being faithful to the commandments is like a peace offering."

Otherwise, mediation will make disputants do so.

Tuesday, March 5, 2019

Dirt

You flick, was someone's graphically blunt remark on people bug-ging us.

We say it nicely in mediation.

Monday, March 4, 2019

Finishing the Other's Sentence

Our Daily Bread speaks of loving couples thus, comfortable as "the old shoe."

In mediation, it's usually preparing to rebut the other's sentence.

Sunday, March 3, 2019

Blind leading the blind

That was the warning in this Sunday Mass reading.

Same goes to mediators, who have to shed light during the session.

Empathy

Our Daily Bread mentions Charles Schultz' eulogy by fellow cartoonist Cathy Guisewite as "the cartoonist...who encouraged us, commiserated with us, and made us feel he was exactly like us."

Unlike the cold atmosphere of a courtroom, a mediation table is approachable and accessible. Not peanuts.

Friday, March 1, 2019

Audit-orium

The first meeting of the newly appointed leaders of Bangsa Moro Autonomous Region was held in a cavernous hall. They occupied the first two rows. Not very conducive nor ergonomic to face-to-face interaction.

Mediation requires sincere dialogue between disputants.